Relationships are crucial to the development of the human spirit. In our path to develop our individual self we find ourselves in relationship with others and learning to find the balance between living as an individual and in partnership. Sometimes these relationships can seem quite difficult as we navigate that tender tightrope between the Self and the Other.

    The birthchart helps us to identify potential conflicts within ourselves that we may play out in the arena of our relationships. Often we attract partners to use that embody a part of ourselves that is not finding its full expression. Once we are able to identify the lost parts of our Self, we discover greater wholeness in our own life and are better able to experience greater joy in our relationshihps with others.

     Examples of inner conflicts that are found in many people affecting their relationships are: Connection vs. Autonomy, Safety/Security vs. Adventure, and Responsibility vs. Free Spirit.

     A relationship reading can be done for families, couples, or parents and children, and begins with an analysis of each chart individually to see where the potential issues and strengths can be found. We then look at the relationship each chart makes to the other, which shows us the issues and points of connection between the two individuals. We can identify potential difficulties and prescribe methods to work through these issues in a way that will maximize our own empowerment. A chart is then drawn for the couple or family, which identifies the nature of that relationship.

   Relationships go through changes, and a reading which analyzes the transits of the relationship and how that affects each partner can also be very useful in uncovering issues or patterns and means for effecting positive changes.